I love getting posts that remind me that I made a good choice when I decided not to enforce too many rules about what should be posted on this site. Sometimes, it doesn't take a whole day to get a glimpse of someone's life. Sometimes it only takes a single moment. -Cbella
So, my running buddy got us tickets to the sold out, limited-to-3 hundred-tickets, Third Eye Blind concert at this basement club in Shinjuku.
And guess what?
I'm pretty sure that the super rock star, lead singer dude, Stephan Jenkins, that I got to shake hands and have a brief conversation with, was checking me out and flirting with me.
Here's how it was.
After I left my sensible husband in the non-sweaty, elbow-room-available back, I let myself get swept away with the rock thumpin', head bangin', fist pumping beat and went for the front.
Those who know me are not surprised at this point in the story.
6 songs into trying, I reached the mosh pit and he made eye contact a couple of times when the crowd parted enough for my blondish, bobbing self to be seen. Then, 2 more songs later, when I'd side-ways-elbowed myself through the bone-crushing front echelon of the hard core fans (Wouter-syle), he swaggered over to arm's reach.
THEN,
(here's the cool part,)
he reached over a cute little Japanese girl and a sweaty (and remarkably tall) Japanese guy to reach out for my hand.
I, along with 50 fans around me, reached up for his.
We locked fingers.
I said, "Thanks for coming to Tokyo."
He said, "What's that?"
ok...yeah...that maybe wasn't so romantic, but he said it with a twinkle in his eye and his head cocked in a kind -of amused (and attractive) way to the side, alright?
I said, (louder) "Thanks for coming to Tokyo."
He said, "Oh, yeah. It's great. Do you love it here?"
Notice how he kept the conversation going.
I said, "Definitely!"
He smiled and sang the next refrain without moving back.
Right about that time, that damn remarkably tall guy edged back into his spot (that I'd confiscated) and Mr. Super Star faded back into only glimpses when I jumped extra high.
So, that was last night.
Today, after running around at work in my concert t-shirt
(of COURSE I wore it today),
telling people about it, I've reached tonight.
And I'm thinking...
I know that super rock stars check out all the rocker chicks in the front rows, looking for ones they can bang that night.
And I know that they mostly have huge, egocentric egos, substance abuse problems and STD's.
I got that I'm a fair-skinned blond, and stood out like (insert great simile here) next to the black-haired sea of Japanese heads in the crowd.
And that my white tank top was probably reflecting the stage lights in neon-like crazy bright
Let alone that it, along with my jeans I bought last summer when I was thinner,
labeled me Skankville compared to the dressed-in-long-sleeves-
(even though, YOU GUYS, it's 12 million degrees in a mosh pit don't ya' know,? Dress for it!)
Japanese girls that I was smooshed between.
But,
throw me a bone.
I'm 40... ish
So, it was still pretty cool.
and let-it-all-go FUN.
I read that he was valedictorian of his class at Berkeley, with a degree in English Literature.
Those sensory-stabbing, etched forever in your memory, what you reach for when you describe total lust-lyrics....hmmmm...dude has a way with words
And wow, I really do love his voice...
rock on









